The Kitchen God’s Wife

by Amy Tan
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  • Added: 2025-08-30
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nytimes.com · Unknown · 2025-09-17
compelling 4.00

The reviewer finds Amy Tan's second novel, 'The Kitchen God's Wife,' a harrowing and compelling tale that unfolds with a Tolstoyan tide of events and details. Despite a slow start and some initial disappointment with the protagonist's stereotypical portrayal, the novel ultimately succeeds in its ambitious exploration of fate, individual choice, and societal victimization, though the reviewer critiques the forced parallel between the protagonist's suffering and her daughter's illness.

Amy Tan's 'The Kitchen God's Wife' is a more ambitious and satisfying effort compared to her debut, 'The Joy Luck Club.' The novel follows the life of Winnie Louie, a widowed matriarch in San Francisco, as she recounts her harrowing past to her daughter, Pearl. The reviewer initially finds Winnie's character stereotypical and the narrative device of Winnie telling her story to Pearl somewhat irritating. However, the depth and complexity of Winnie's experiences, from her abandonment by her mother to her brutal marriage and eventual immigration to the United States, make the story compelling. The reviewer appreciates Tan's exploration of themes like fate, individual choice, and societal victimization, but critiques the forced parallel between Winnie's suffering and Pearl's illness, which diminishes the impact of Pearl's real despair. Overall, the reviewer recommends immersing oneself in the world Tan creates, as the story itself is what truly matters.

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    It is unfortunate that we first encounter her through the eyes of her 40-year-old daughter, Pearl, because Winnie seems disappointingly stereotypical.

    Her mother's disappearance is the first of many losses, humiliations and sorrows so great that it is only Weiwei's exasperated humor and her tone of harsh certainty -- a kind of bossiness -- that maintains credulity.

    The major question posed by the investigation of the life of Jiang Weili/Weiwei/Winnie is how much our circumstance is fated and how much is shaped by individual choice, or if, in fact, fate and individual choice are even entirely separate things.

app.thestorygraph.com · Unknown · 2025-09-17
powerful 3.75

The Kitchen God's Wife by Amy Tan is a powerful and emotional story about a woman's traumatic experiences during WWII China, told through the lens of her relationship with her daughter. The book explores themes of womanhood, maternity, and the generational divide between immigrants, with some readers finding the narrative disjointed but ultimately moving and insightful.

The Kitchen God's Wife by Amy Tan delves into the life of Winnie, a woman who endured immense hardship and trauma during WWII China. The story is framed by her relationship with her daughter, Pearl, and explores themes of womanhood, maternity, and the generational divide between immigrants. The narrative is powerful and emotional, with some readers finding it challenging due to its graphic depictions of abuse and war. While some found the framing of Winnie's story within the contemporary setting disjointed, the overall impact of the book is moving and insightful. The characters are complex and flawed, and the book offers a unique perspective on a often overlooked aspect of WWII history.

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    This is Amy Tan's story about her mother's life. She faces her mother's trauma through Wenwen (Winnie) and she shows you the pain her mother went through during the second world war in China.

    It's hard to say I got a lot of enjoyment out of this book. Appreciation, certainly. Insight, definitely. Enjoyment, no.

    This book told an incredibly powerful story and did it well, which is why I am giving it 4 stars.

writeoutloudblog.com · Unknown · 2025-09-17
touching 4.50

The Kitchen God’s Wife is a touching and superbly-written account of Winnie's strength in dealing with an abusive marriage. The story is divided into three sections, with the second being a long monologue by Winnie about her life in China and her escape from her marriage. The characters are well-developed, particularly the villain Wen Fu, who is truly odious. The writing is absorbing and brings out Winnie's voice effectively.

The Kitchen God’s Wife by Amy Tan is a deeply moving and well-crafted novel that explores the life of Winnie, a strong woman who endures an abusive marriage. The story is divided into three sections, with the majority of the book being a lengthy monologue by Winnie, recounting her experiences in China and her attempts to escape her marriage to the cruel Wen Fu. The characters are vividly drawn, with Winnie's resilience and Wen Fu's villainy standing out. The writing is engaging and effectively captures Winnie's voice, making the narrative feel personal and immersive. The book also delves into the complexities of relationships, both romantic and platonic, and provides a rich cultural backdrop during the Sino-Japanese War. Overall, it's a compelling read for those interested in Chinese culture and stories of personal strength.

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    This is the kind of China you Americans always see in the movies — the poor countryside, people wearing big hats to protect themselves from the sun. No, I never wore a hat like that! I was from Shanghai. That’s like thinking someone from San Francisco wears a cowboy hat and rides a horse. Ridiculous!

    The writing is excellent. It’s not flowery or particularly poetic, but it’s incredibly absorbing, and it really brings out Winnie’s voice.

    A touching and superbly-written account of an incredibly strong woman dealing as best she can with an abusive marriage.

jarofbooks.wordpress.com · Unknown · 2015-07-30
mixed 3.00

The reviewer found 'The Kitchen God’s Wife' a slow start but ultimately enjoyed it, appreciating the depth of Winnie's story despite initial dissatisfaction with the writing style and narrative structure. They admired Tan's ability to reveal the extraordinary lives behind seemingly ordinary people.

The reviewer initially struggled with 'The Kitchen God’s Wife,' finding Amy Tan's writing style and narrative structure challenging. The slow start and abrupt shifts in perspective between Pearl and Winnie were particularly irritating. However, as the story progressed, the reviewer became deeply invested in Winnie's life and appreciated the way Tan revealed the extraordinary experiences behind seemingly ordinary people. While the reviewer didn't fully enjoy the first third of the book, they ultimately found it compelling and are interested in reading more of Tan's work to better understand her style.

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    This was definitely a slow burner for me. Although overall I did enjoy the novel, I didn’t like Tan’s style.

    I was bemused by the mundane quality of the character — especially Winnie’s as an old woman — as this set us up for such an incredible life story.

    While it was a difficult book to appreciate for the first third or so, by the end I had soaked up Winnie’s character and cared about what happened to her.

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