Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage: Stories

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  • Added: 2025-10-24
  • Updated: 2025-10-24
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yalereviewofbooks.com · Unknown · 2025-11-24
brilliant 4.50

Alice Munro's collection of stories offers a realistic window into life's misfortunes and truths, with a focus on the complex and often frustrating journeys of her characters. The stories are praised for their depth, emotional resonance, and Munro's exceptional ability to capture the nuances of human experience.

Alice Munro's collection of stories, Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage, is both lovely and frustrating, offering a realistic window into life's misfortunes and truths. The stories are noted for their constant shifts of time and perspective, quick acquaintance with many characters, and successions of deaths and failures of faith. This repetition and the keen variations within such repetition make the collection compelling, transforming the frustration experienced by readers into a realistic strength. Munro's ability to capture the complexities of her characters' lives, often middle-class and middle-aged, is highlighted, with her stories being described as rich, mature, and authoritative. The collection is praised for its emotional depth and the way it explores the bargains women make with life and the measureless price they pay.


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    The lovely formal-sounding waves that fill this collection, surely Munro's best yet, are in their wise sadness the product of such attention paid.

    There is not one of her stories in this new book that does not put together characters with real if subtle class divisions between them.

    This is the terrain of love seen from the long prospect, a seasoned view.

bookmarks.reviews · Unknown · 2025-11-24
engaging 4.25

The collection of stories is praised for its emotional depth and realistic characters, with some readers finding certain stories particularly memorable. However, one reviewer found the collection difficult to engage with due to personal reasons.

Many readers have expressed their appreciation for the emotional depth and realistic characters in this collection of stories. Some have highlighted specific stories as their favorites, such as 'Nettles' and 'The Bear Came Over the Mountain', and have praised the author's ability to create rich and full narratives within the short story format. The themes of women in complicated relationships and the impact of random events on life have been noted as particularly compelling. However, one reviewer found the collection difficult to engage with due to personal reasons, including the author's personal history and the natural stops created by the end of each story.


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    I keep thinking the current story I’m reading is my favorite in the bunch, but then I get to the next one, and then the next one. Can’t wait to read more Alice Munro.

    Devastating, cruel, tender. I loved these stories.

    OBVIOUSLY ALICE MUNRO'S LEGACY IS NOW QUITE SPOILED. Saying that at the top.

goodreads.com · Unknown · 2025-11-24
mixed 3.50

Alice Munro's collection of nine stories offers a realistic window into life's misfortunes and truths, with a mix of lovely and frustrating elements. The stories explore themes of death, adultery, old age, and mental illness, with Munro's writing mirroring life's inconsistencies and ironies. While some stories feel disjointed and dramatic, others, like 'Comfort,' stand out as gems, providing a sense of completeness and beauty.

Alice Munro's collection of nine stories, Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage, offers a realistic window into life's misfortunes and truths. The stories are by turns lovely and frustrating, exploring themes of death, adultery, old age, mental illness, and broken trust. Munro's writing mirrors the essential aspects of life—inconsistency, irony, endless reiteration mixed with constant change. The title story, for instance, describes a suit that feels light but wears like iron, much like the story itself, which combines light language with weighty content. The collection's strength lies in its ability to preserve the essence of life, its imperfections, contradictions, and repetitions. However, the ubiquitous themes of one-time affairs and death tend to lose their novelty, making the collection feel tired and jaded by the end. Some stories, like 'Post and Beam,' feel disjointed and forced, undermining the real drama in other stories. The strongest story, 'Comfort,' is a gem among finely polished stones, beautifully weaving together remembrance of life and struggle to accept grief. Munro transforms the frustration experienced by readers into a realistic strength, portraying life in all its rawness and beauty.


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    The language is light — “when she was finished it shone like candy. Maple candy — it was bird’s-eye maple wood. It looked glamorous to her, like satin bedspreads and blond hair.

    The affair begins in a series of love letters that have actually been faked by Sabitha and her best friend.

    The strongest story in the collection, “Comfort,” is like a gem among finely polished stones.

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