The Hundred Thousand Kingdoms

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  • Added: 2025-10-21
  • Updated: 2025-10-21
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littleredreviewer.wordpress.com · Unknown · 2020-11-14
brilliant 5.00

The book offers a non-punitive approach to discipline, focusing on teachable moments and understanding the child's brain. It emphasizes the importance of parental intuition and emotional calmness in addressing behavioral issues.

The book provides a refreshing perspective on discipline, moving away from punishment and instead focusing on teachable moments. The authors, Drs. Siegel and Bryson, draw parallels from their previous work, 'The Whole Brain Child,' to explain how understanding the child's brain can lead to more effective discipline. They argue that by talking and redirecting rather than punishing, parents can help their children become more receptive to addressing issues. The book is well-organized and offers practical advice, making it a valuable resource for parents seeking a calmer and more effective approach to discipline. The reviewer particularly appreciated the emphasis on parental intuition and the idea that discipline is not just about punishment but about guiding children towards better behavior.


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    Yet again the title should be a review in and of itself.

    With strong parallels from their previous joint publication (The Whole Brain Child), which I have previously reviewed, the authors tackle discipline from a non-punitive perspective seeking the “teachable moment” approach for both parent and child.

    This is the second ‘parental discipline’ book that I have read in the past few months. With a child in his Torrential Threes, I sought out some helpful advice to tackle issues of defiance, acting out, and even outright ignoring.

elitistbookreviews.com · Unknown · 2011-09-09
inspiring 4.50

The book offers practical advice for parents dealing with children's emotional breakdowns, emphasizing empathy and understanding. It provides clear direction and examples for effective communication and behavior, leading to positive changes in both parent and child.

The book offers practical advice for parents dealing with children's emotional breakdowns, emphasizing empathy and understanding. It provides clear direction and examples for effective communication and behavior, leading to positive changes in both parent and child. The philosophy of the book derives from empathic love, and how we communicate that through understanding and learning in our children's most difficult moments. It strikes a balance between too strong a disciplinary approach and too light, offering a road leading through our common humanity but with clear limits. The book promotes persistence and consistency in the parent to see positive changes in the child, understanding that nothing is perfect and problems will still exist. It also requires the parent to be self-aware, to understand themselves as they attempt to relate to a small person who doesn't yet possess the skills to be self-aware themselves.


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    The answer to my question: love.

    Key example: an emotional breakdown is not a moment to lay down the law, rather a moment to model and teach.

    In the end, No-Drama Discipline is, at a minimum, worth a read for parents struggling to deal with their children's emotional breakdowns and temper tantrums.

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