The Confidence Gap: A Guide to Overcoming Fear and Self-Doubt

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judge.me · Unknown · 2025-10-20
intriguing 4.00

The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time by Mark Haddon is a unique and original novel told from the perspective of a fifteen-year-old boy with Asperger's. The story provides an insightful look into the mind of someone on the autism spectrum, though it contains disturbing content and language that may not be suitable for children.

The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time by Mark Haddon is a novel that stands out for its originality and creativity. Told through the eyes of Christopher Boone, a fifteen-year-old with Asperger's, the story offers a unique perspective on the world. The narrative is both logical and devoid of emotion, reflecting Christopher's mindset. The book is divided into sections that focus on his investigation into the murder of a dog, his personal struggles, and his scientific and mathematical tangents. The use of prime numbers for chapter headings adds to the uniqueness of the story. The novel provides a deep insight into the challenges faced by someone on the autism spectrum, particularly when taken out of their comfort zone. However, it also contains disturbing content and language that may not be suitable for children. The story is important, clever, and intriguing, but it falls short of being a perfect novel. It deserves to be read and discussed, offering a valuable perspective on the autism spectrum and the broader human experience.


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    The opening chapter finds Christopher in his neighbour’s front yard in the middle of the night discovering the body of a dead dog. Not just a dead dog. A murdered dog. A dog with a large garden fork sticking out of it.

    The chapters aren’t numbered the way you might expect. Christopher uses prime numbers only so it starts with 2, then 3, then 5, then 7, then 11, and so on.

    The more I got to know Christopher as I followed him through his adventure, the more I began to think of Asperger’s and autism spectrum disorders as a clinical form of extreme selfishness.

goodreads.com · Unknown · 2025-10-20
critical 1.00

The reviewer criticizes the portrayal of the autistic protagonist, Christopher, as elitist, violent, and lacking empathy, which they believe perpetuates harmful stereotypes. They express concern that this representation could lead to harmful treatment of autistic people and does not accurately reflect the diverse experiences of autistic individuals.

The reviewer is highly critical of the portrayal of the autistic protagonist, Christopher, in the book. They argue that Christopher is depicted as elitist, violent, and lacking empathy, which they believe reinforces harmful stereotypes about autistic people. The reviewer is particularly concerned that this representation could lead to harmful treatment of autistic individuals, as it does not accurately reflect the diverse experiences of autistic people. They also point out that the book does not provide a positive or nuanced portrayal of autistic individuals, which could be misleading for readers who are not familiar with autism. The reviewer also highlights specific instances of Christopher's behavior that they find problematic, such as his violent actions and his lack of empathy towards others. They argue that these portrayals are not only inaccurate but also potentially dangerous, as they could contribute to a negative perception of autistic people.


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    The way the author chooses to portray Christopher makes me worry that some people will assume that harmful treatment toward autistic people is okay, or even deserved.

    Christopher is not at all bothered by this.

    If you recommend this book to someone as a portrayal of autism, this is how it represents autistic people: elitist, unconcerned for others, and frequently, remorselessly violent.

barnesandnoble.com · Unknown · 2025-10-20
insightful 4.50

The Confidence Gap offers practical strategies to overcome fear and self-doubt, making it a valuable resource for those seeking to build confidence. The book's insights are applicable to various aspects of life, from personal growth to professional success.

The Confidence Gap provides a comprehensive guide to understanding and overcoming fear and self-doubt. The book is filled with practical strategies and exercises that can help readers build confidence in various areas of their lives. Whether you're looking to improve your personal relationships, advance your career, or simply feel more self-assured, this book offers valuable insights and tools. The author's approach is both compassionate and practical, making it accessible to readers at any stage of their confidence journey. The book's emphasis on self-compassion and self-awareness is particularly noteworthy, as it encourages readers to be kind to themselves while working on building confidence. Overall, The Confidence Gap is a valuable resource for anyone looking to overcome fear and self-doubt and live a more confident life.


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    The book offers practical strategies to overcome fear and self-doubt.

    The author's approach is both compassionate and practical.

    The book's emphasis on self-compassion and self-awareness is particularly noteworthy.

publishersweekly.com · Unknown · 2011-07-11
thought-provoking 4.50

The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time is a thought-provoking and original tale narrated by a 15-year-old boy with Asperger's Syndrome. The story is both heartbreaking and humorous, offering a unique perspective on autism and a satisfying mystery with a happy ending.

The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time is an incredible rollercoaster of a tale, written in the voice of a fifteen-year-old boy with Asperger’s Syndrome called Christopher Boone. After discovering his neighbour’s dog has been murdered, he sets off to find out who the murderer could be. On this quest, he discovers far more than he anticipated. Some people struggle to deal with Christopher because he can be so uncompromising, but the reviewer found him rather loveable. He is completely true to himself, brilliant, and driven by logic not emotion. Without giving away the ending, he manages to solve the mystery of the murdered dog in the most extraordinary way and becomes the unlikely hero of the story. Not only are his detective skills excellent, he manages to get brilliant marks in maths exams without a lot of revision. This is one of the most original and thought-provoking books the reviewer has read in the last year. It is one of those stories, like To Kill a Mockingbird, that the reviewer feels everyone should know about. It has had a great impact on the reviewer as it has made them think differently about people with autism and understand their ways of thinking and other talents are amazing and important. The reviewer would recommend this book to anyone who enjoys mystery, moments of heartbreak but ultimately a happy ending and plenty of humour along the way.


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    He is also completely true to himself, brilliant and like his hero Sherlock Holmes, driven by logic not emotion.

    This is one of the most original and thought provoking books I have read in the last year.

    It is one of those stories, like To Kill a Mockingbird, that I feel everyone should know about.